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Developing An Ear, Heart, and Follow Through

Listening

The main components in good listening are paying attention and seeking to understand the other person. Perhaps the greatest obstacle to a good dialogue comes from one person trying desperately to be heard without listening, validating and responding to what the other person feels is important. When both people want to be heard and neither is listening, it is difficult to achieve the give and take of a good dialogue. “This you know, my beloved brethren. But let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger.” james 1:19 NAS In this brochure, you will learn the techniques and process for promoting a healthy dialogue. However, more important than techniques and process is having a good heart: dealing with one's selfishness and treating others with respect. “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also ...

Posted by: Andres Cisneros

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