Living together before marriages

Whether you live together or not before you are married is irrelevant. My girlfriend and I have been living together for nearly 4 years now, I have had a divorce pending for nearly 5 years and its now finally gonna be finalized. I will say that if you dont live together it is probably best to stay that way until you are married. However as christians and through our decision to stop having sex before we are married we are showing a positive example for others. I have been told by other christians that from the outside it doe...